We often throw the word “impossible” around when what we really mean is “terrifying,” “unfamiliar,” or “no one ever showed me how.”
But what if impossible doesn’t mean it can’t be done—just that you haven’t done it yet?
Changing “Impossible” to “I’m possible”
In this week’s episode of our podcast, My Ruby Slippers, Cilly and I open up about some of the moments in our healing journey that felt flat-out impossible. From running away and returning home, to walking into a women’s center after discovering infidelity, to staying on a “safe” path out of fear of rocking the boat—each of these moments carried the weight of impossible. And yet, here we are.
Healing is not a straight line.
It’s a zigzag, full of what-ifs, do-overs, and sometimes-ugly cries. Trust me — I’ve had A LOT of ugly crying sessions!
But within that mess lives your power—the same power that got you this far. You’ve already done impossible things. You just might need a reminder.
✨ 3 Things You Can Do Today That Might Not Feel Like Much (But Are Everything)
- 1. Call something “hard” instead of “impossible.” Language matters. Saying “this is hard” allows for the possibility that you’ll figure it out. “Impossible” shuts the door. Try renaming the challenge—and watch your mindset shift.
- 2. Make one tiny move toward something new. That could be driving by the support group without stopping. Browsing new job listings. Googling how to apply for financial aid. Taking a free yoga class. You don’t have to commit. You just have to curiously explore.
- 3. Reclaim a physical space. If you’ve had to leave a home, a relationship, or even a plan for your future, try this: take one corner of your current environment and make it yours. A bedside table. A journal nook. A chair by a window. Claim it as sacred. You are allowed to have something that feels like home—even if you’re still healing.
From “Supposed To” to Self-Honoring & Kicking “impossible” to the Curb.
So many of us stay on the path we’re “supposed” to walk. We major in the safe subject. We smile through relationships that feel wrong. We nod politely instead of screaming, “This hurts!”
But healing requires rebellion. Quiet, brave rebellion.
Leaving was the first act of power. But claiming a life you actually want—that’s the real revolution.
🎧 Want to Go Deeper?
This week’s podcast episode, “Mission ImPossible: (But We Do It In Ruby Slippers)”, dives into our personal stories of navigating the impossible—those heavy, gut-wrenching moments when you don’t think you can go on…and somehow, you do.
Tune in for real talk, real stories, and a whole lot of real strength.
You don’t have to feel strong to be strong.
You just have to keep moving, one brave step at a time.
See more at Lilly Strong.
