In a world often overshadowed by external pressures and expectations, an extraordinary power exists within each of us—the radiant glow of our inner light. It’s a force that, when unleashed, not only illuminates our own path but has the profound ability to brighten the world around us.
A Light that Stands Out
Generally, I consider myself a happy person, and I try to share that happiness with others. However, there are times when I feel overwhelmed by “The Grinch,” who seems always to be stepping on my toes. ( Read about Weighting Out the Weight of the World)
The past week has been hectic for me—shopping, cooking, planning, and more shopping. Unfortunately, being stuck inside crowded stores doesn’t do wonders for my mood.
Even someone like me, who usually stays positive, can succumb to the occasional bout of the grouchies. It can happen to anyone.
For instance, this happened recently in a bustling store. The line was long, people were irritable, and the overall atmosphere felt tense. Additionally, children were screaming, and widows were weeping — well, I may be exaggerating a bit, but there was a noticeable frigidness in the air.
At last, it was my turn.
I walked up to the counter, fully prepared to be met with impatience or huffiness. Instead, the salesperson looked me in the eye and beamed brightly. Without any sense of rush or frustration, she asked, “How are you today? Can I help you find anything else?” Remarkably, she had no complaints about her feet hurting or irritable customers. What prevailed was a genuine atmosphere of friendliness.
It was like a warm hug on a cold day.
Like a sunbeam streaming through a frosted window.
With one smile and eleven words, she instantly transformed my mood.
How did she do that?
Why Does That Light Glow?
What contributed to the profound impact the salesperson had on my mood?
It was, undoubtedly, her inner light.
While she easily could have mirrored the store’s overall tone and displayed unpleasantness or grumpiness, she chose a different path. Taking the time to smile at me, making intentional eye contact, and offering assistance even when unrequested—these actions collectively conveyed a powerful message: I mattered.
Her intentionality was the key.
Consider a scenario where you hold open the door for someone, and they don’t acknowledge it. It leaves you feeling a little flat, doesn’t it?
Now, imagine that same person smiling and wishing you a wonderful day. That simple act changes everything; it’s like a warm cup of cocoa by the fireplace—something that warms, comforts, and uplifts.
All of this stems from the power of intentionally sharing inner light with the outside world.
What’s truly remarkable is that each one of us possesses that power! Were you aware that you, too, can radiate an inner glow that is simply stunning?
Do You Share Your Stunning Light?
This is the absolute truth—your light is a gift to the world.
Your uniqueness, your quirks, your passions—they all contribute to this dazzling, one-of-a-kind radiance that only you possess. You have a gift! Don’t hide it away.
There is not another person just like you anywhere on this earth. No one can smile like you, brighten a room, or elevate the general atmosphere and mood.
But let me ask you a question: do you share your light freely?
It doesn’t take much: some eye contact, a smile, a few simple words. You can change the world just by being you.
Remember the salesperson who smiled at me? I smiled back and remarked how nice she was even when she had to be tired and worn out. As a result, she seemed buoyed by the conversation. Her kindness lit a fire in my own in return. Consequently, we both walked away feeling lighter.
3 O’Clock Wednesday
In following our 3 O’Clock Wednesday format of doing 3 things in 3 minutes at 3:00, let’s go through our checklist:
1. Affirmation
Remind yourself that you have your own unique light that shines as brightly as a star. No one has quite the same stunning glow as you — share it with those around you.
2. Grace
In a world that sometimes feels too fixated on flaws, it’s crucial to remember that imperfections are the brushstrokes that make your masterpiece. Give yourself the grace you deserve. Don’t fear that the shadows of the world will diminish your glow. Quite the opposite, the contrast enhances it.
3. Self-Care
For your self-care mission this week, plan a date with yourself. Stroll in the park, sip your favorite tea, or indulge in that guilty pleasure book. Whatever it is that makes your soul smile — do it! When your soul smiles, it passes the glow onto others.
Remember, your light is not only beautiful; it’s a force that can light up even the darkest corners. So, free your stunning glow, let it dance unapologetically, and watch as it illuminates not just your world but the world around you. You are a gift that the world desperately needs.
Do you have a story about the unexpected gift of light? Tell me about it in the comments!
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